In Progress, On Purpose
Do you love yourself—truly, unapologetically, unconditionally? Or do you measure yourself against an impossible ideal, leaving you trapped in self-doubt and criticism?
The images of happy, successful and beautiful person projected by the society or social media – it appears perfect. It is perfect. But in reality, it is just like the reflection you see when looking at broken pieces of mirror. Distorted. Incomplete. Broken.
Perfect is broken. Perfect is a facade.
You believe it to be true and become self-critical for not achieving those deceptions. It is a deception because it is impossible to attain.
You start to disrespect and not appreciate yourself. I am not beautiful enough or successful enough or productive enough – these thoughts will race in your mind all the time. Eventually, you will feel that you are not good enough. And that feeling will weigh you down, crumble and crush you.
This doesn’t have to be true. You have the power to change that – power to challenge your inner voice and the standards of the society.
Completing this collection of 50 deep self love journal prompts is the first step you can take in your self love journey. These journal prompts will help you to see your own worth, identify patterns and challenge the negative thoughts.
1. What does self love mean to you?
2. What are the three qualities that you admire about yourself ? Why?
3. What qualities or personality traits makes you unique from others?
4. If someone asks you to describe yourself, what will you tell?
5. Did you feel proud of yourself recently? Why?
6. If you could spend a day according to your wish, how would it be?
7. What activities do you enjoy the most?
8. What would you do if you weren’t afraid of failure?
9. Do you hold any negative beliefs about yourself? What are those? How can you challenge them?
10. How can you be more self-compassionate?
11. Do you compare yourself to others? If yes, how can you stop this?
12. How can you forgive yourself for the past mistakes?
13. Has anyone made you feel inferior or hurt your self-esteem? How can you rise above this?
14. What are the fears that is holding you back from loving yourself unconditionally?
15. How has your relationship with yourself evolved over the years?
16. What triggers self-doubt in you? Have you noticed any patterns? What can you do about it?
17. How would your life change if you accepted yourself completely?
18. Has anyone been impacted positively because of something I have done? Recently or in the past?
19. What small acts of self care you can do to love yourself more?
20. Write about 5 things that you are grateful for doing or achieving.
21. How can you love yourself the same way as you love the most important person in your life?
22. What part of your physical appearance do you love the most? Why?
23. What is a decision that you made in recent past that reflects your personal growth?
24. What does it mean to truly accept your flaws and imperfections?
25. How can you set boundaries to respect your personal space and well-being?
26. What does your ideal relationship with yourself look like?
27. What are the three things that you can do today to show yourself love?
28. How can you respect your emotions, even the uncomfortable ones?
29. How can you remind yourself that ‘I am enough’ everyday?
30. How can you celebrate your self love journey?
31. How can you nurture your inner child as you move forward in life?
32. What healing words do I need to tell my younger self to let go of regret and guilt?
33. What advice would you give to you younger self about self love?
34. How can you nurture your playful and creative side?
35. What kind of self-love did you lack growing up? How can you change that now?
36. What childhood hobbies brought you joy? Can you reconnect with those?
37. How can you give yourself the same unconditional love that you deserved as a child?
38. What would your younger self think about the person you have become?
39. What did you love most about yourself when you were a child?
40. What is one way you can show up or stand up for yourself this week?
41. How have you grown as a person in the last year?
42. Have you overcome any fear? What strength did it reveal about yourself?
43. What are the goals that you are working on? How can you cheer yourself for achieving them?
44. How do you envision yourself as a confident person? How can you embrace that now?
45. How can you step out of your comfort zone and grow?
46. How can you practice resilience and perseverance in life?
47. What talents of yours are you proud of?
48. How do you celebrate wins – big or small?
49. What are your favorite ways to express self love?
50. Write about a memory from past that fills you with pride and joy.
Final Thoughts
If something appears perfect to you, and you wanna achieve that, it’s a trap. It’s like walking in a desert and seeing a mirage. You believe it to be true and run towards it, but can’t find it. Because it never existed. You will lose yourself if you refuse to realize and believe that it was an illusion.
But your self-worth is real. Your flaws are real.
Perfection is a lie. Humans are imperfect. And there is beauty in being human. So let go of the illusion. Embrace yourself fully.
Your journey to self-love starts now.
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